1 Timothy 5

Introduction

First Timothy 5 is one of the most practical chapters in the Pastoral Epistles, addressing how Timothy should manage relationships and responsibilities within the church at Ephesus. Paul covers three major areas of church life: how to treat people of different ages and stations (vv. 1-2), the care and enrollment of widows (vv. 3-16), and the honor and discipline of elders (vv. 17-25). The chapter reveals a church that is becoming organized enough to need policies — who qualifies for financial support, how leaders should be compensated and held accountable, and how to avoid favoritism.

The widow passages are the longest sustained treatment of this topic in the New Testament and provide a window into the social realities of the early church. Widows in the Greco-Roman world were among the most vulnerable members of society, and the church took on significant responsibility for their care. But Paul is concerned that this generosity be well-ordered: families should care for their own, younger widows should remarry, and only those who are truly destitute and have demonstrated a life of faithful service should be enrolled for church support. The elder section that follows establishes principles of fair compensation, due process, and impartial discipline that remain foundational for church governance.


Treating Others in the Church (vv. 1-2)

1 Do not rebuke an older man, but appeal to him as to a father. Treat younger men as brothers, 2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.

1 Do not harshly rebuke an older man, but rather appeal to him as a father. Treat younger men as brothers, 2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, in all purity.

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Honoring True Widows (vv. 3-8)

3 Honor the widows who are truly widows. 4 But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they must first learn to show godliness to their own family and repay their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God. 5 The widow who is truly in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day in her petitions and prayers. 6 But she who lives for pleasure is dead even while she is still alive. 7 Give these instructions to the believers, so that they will be above reproach. 8 If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

3 Honor widows who are truly widows. 4 But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show reverence toward their own household and to make some repayment to their parents, for this is acceptable in God's sight. 5 The woman who is truly a widow, left entirely alone, has set her hope on God and persists in her requests and prayers night and day. 6 But the one who lives self-indulgently is dead even while living. 7 Command these things as well, so that they may be beyond reproach. 8 And if anyone does not provide for his own — and especially for those of his own household — he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

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The Enrolled Widows (vv. 9-16)

9 A widow should be enrolled if she is at least sixty years old, faithful to her husband, 10 and well known for good deeds such as bringing up children, entertaining strangers, washing the feet of the saints, imparting relief to the afflicted, and devoting herself to every good work.

11 But refuse to enroll younger widows. For when their passions draw them away from Christ, they will want to marry, 12 and thus will incur judgment because they are setting aside their first faith. 13 At the same time they will also learn to be idle, going from house to house and being not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, discussing things they should not mention. 14 So I advise the younger widows to marry, have children, and manage their households, denying the adversary occasion for slander. 15 For some have already turned aside to follow Satan.

16 If any believing woman has dependent widows, she must assist them and not allow the church to be burdened, so that it can help the widows who are truly in need.

9 Let a widow be enrolled if she is not less than sixty years old, having been a one-man woman, 10 and attested for good works — if she raised children, if she showed hospitality to strangers, if she washed the feet of the saints, if she relieved the afflicted, if she devoted herself to every good work.

11 But refuse younger widows, for when their desires draw them away from Christ, they want to marry, 12 and so they bring judgment on themselves because they have set aside their first commitment. 13 And at the same time they also learn to be idle, going around from house to house — and not merely idle, but also gossips and meddlers, saying things they ought not to say. 14 Therefore I want younger widows to marry, bear children, manage their households, and give the adversary no opportunity for slander. 15 For some have already turned aside after Satan.

16 If any believing woman has widows in her care, let her assist them and let the church not be burdened, so that it may assist those who are truly widows.

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Honoring Elders (vv. 17-20)

17 Elders who lead effectively are worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching. 18 For the Scripture says, "Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain," and, "The worker is worthy of his wages." 19 Do not entertain an accusation against an elder, except on the testimony of two or three witnesses. 20 But those who persist in sin should be rebuked in front of everyone, so that the others will stand in fear of sin.

17 Let the elders who lead well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching. 18 For the Scripture says, "You shall not muzzle an ox while it is threshing," and, "The worker deserves his wages." 19 Do not accept an accusation against an elder except on the evidence of two or three witnesses. 20 Those who are sinning, rebuke in the presence of all, so that the rest also may be afraid.

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Impartiality and Prudence (vv. 21-25)

21 I solemnly charge you before God and Christ Jesus and the elect angels to maintain these principles without bias, and to do nothing out of partiality. 22 Do not be too quick in the laying on of hands and thereby share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure. 23 Stop drinking only water and use a little wine instead, because of your stomach and your frequent ailments. 24 The sins of some men are obvious, going ahead of them to judgment; but the sins of others do not surface until later. 25 In the same way, good deeds are obvious, and even the ones that are inconspicuous cannot remain hidden.

21 I solemnly charge you before God and Christ Jesus and the chosen angels to guard these instructions without prejudgment, doing nothing out of favoritism. 22 Do not lay hands on anyone hastily, and do not share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure. 23 No longer drink only water, but use a little wine for the sake of your stomach and your frequent illnesses. 24 The sins of some people are evident, going ahead of them to judgment, but the sins of others follow behind. 25 Likewise, good works are evident, and even those that are not cannot remain hidden.

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